International Men’s Day – a call for positive masculinity

THE EDITOR, Madam:

November 19 marks International Men’s Day, a global observance dedicated to celebrating the positive value men bring to families, communities, and society. This year’s theme, ‘Celebrating Men and Boys’, invites us to reflect on the challenges men face and the urgent need to redefine masculinity in healthier, inclusive ways.

For too long, societal norms have pressured men to suppress emotions, equating vulnerability with weakness. Boys are taught to “man up” and “suck it up,” fostering emotional repression that often manifests as anger – the only socially acceptable masculine emotion. These outdated expectations contribute to toxic masculinity, a harmful set of norms rooted in aggression, dominance, and the devaluation of femininity. The consequences are far-reaching: mental health struggles, gender disharmony, and violence.

International Men’s Day provides an opportunity to challenge these narratives and promote positive masculinity. Its six pillars emphasise celebrating everyday male role models, improving men’s health and well-being, addressing discrimination, fostering gender equality, and creating safer communities. These goals align with the United Nations Sustainable Development Goal #5 on gender equality, reminding us that gender is not a metaphor for women – men matter too.

Progress is being made. Jamaica’s introduction of 20 working days of paid paternity leave in 2023 is a commendable step toward supporting fathers and strengthening family bonds. Yet, more needs to be done. Not all men benefit equally from patriarchal structures; race, class, and other social hierarchies create disparities among men themselves. Recognizing these complexities is essential for meaningful reform.

On this International Men’s Day, let us recommit to building a gentler society rooted in empathy and respect. We must encourage men to embrace emotional openness, support one another, and reject harmful stereotypes. Schools, workplaces, and communities should champion inclusive interpretations of masculinity that value compassion alongside strength.

As former President Barack Obama aptly stated, “Being a man is first and foremost being a good human.” That means being responsible, reliable, kind, and respectful. Let us use this day not only to celebrate men but to advance conversations and policies that promote mental health, gender harmony, and positive masculinity for all.

WAYNE CAMPBELL

waykam@yahoo.com